 | You have a husband, and you HAVE to work so much that your child is forced to work more hours than most adults? Why, so you can shop at the mall and you can both drive shiny new cars? Why doesn't your husband take care of your children if you feel your 'career' is so important. My husband would never make me work unless I wanted to. Yes, there are jobs you can work 9-5. As a matter of fact, I only work part time. My good friend is a paralegal. She works pretty much when she wants to, makes $40,000 per year, and takes he kids to work with her whenever they want to go.
I am THERE when my kids school day is done. I would live in a mobile home and eat food out of cans before I watched my child falling asleep out of exhaustion becuase of a little job I had at the bank. I come form a family of seven children. We were so poor that my mother made all our clothes, and she had one good dress that she wore to church each week. How many dresses do you have?
You are right, I do not see the big picture, and I do not care to. Now that I see more of the picture I am even more disgusted than before. Earlier I thought you were a single mom trying to do all you could to out food on the table and clothes on your back. Now I know that you really just want to make things more convenient for you. You want your happy little picture where junior comes home and snugglies with mommy, then leaves you alone so you can watch TV then drop him off at daycere, school, and daycare again so someone else can parent him . You say that your kids never wanted for love. When do you have time to love them? A few hours on the weekend? You are telling yourself a big lie, and your children know. They know you don't HAVE to work all these hours. You do it because you WANT to. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion about this sort of thing. I think it is child abuse and neglect.
By the way, to the person who wrote the message about her kid getting teased in school becuase he didn't have the right clothes and things, THIS IS WHY! These kids have all the clothes and shoes they want but no parents. The reason they act out and make fun of other kids is because they are not loved at home and are seeking attention.
Has everyone forgot that our Savior will return to avenge the injustices done on these poor children? |
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