 | I hope you take on board the advice these women have given you. I totally agree with everything they have said, financially, physically, emotionally you are not ready for a baby. I'm curious, are you even using contraception? What does this boyfriend think about the whole baby idea. Because most guys who are 14 are not thinking about babies and chances are if you did get pregnanct by him, he'd be out of your life so fast honey.
But babies aside, why are you having sex at 13? I know you say you love him, but honey when you grow up and fall in love for the first time you'll know what love is. I'm worried for you. Beside getting yourself pregnant, you could get AIDS, Hepatitis B, or any number of STD's. Please protect yourself before you ruin the life you havn't even had a chance to live.
I hope you listen to all this advice everyone has given you. Your teen years are for having fun with your friends, make the most of them. Before you know it they are gone and the reality and responsibility of adult hood kicks in.
Take care
Seza |