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November 22, 2009

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jdmoaka

DATE: 09/24/03 12:44pm

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Re: What Has Actually Worked for you?? (I feel a nervous breakdown coming on!)

IN REPLY TO: Re: What Has Actually Worked for you?? (I feel a nervous breakdown coming on!)
AUTHOR: pisces61

READING YOUR POSTING, I FELT LIKE I WROTE IT. I ALMOST DIED WHEN HAVING MY DAUGHTER AND WAS ON LIFE SUPPORT FOR SEVERAL WEEKS. MY DOCTORS TALK TO ME AND ASK ME IF I WANT ANYMORE CHILDREN. I LOOK AT THEM LIKE THEY ARE CRAZY FOR TWO REASONS. ONE MY CHILD ACTS LIKE A MANIAC 1/2 THE TIME AND TWO I ALMOST DIED ONCE NOT TRYING FOR TWICE. ANYWAYS I WAS A STAY AT HOME MOM FOR THE FIRST 25 MONTHS AND JUST RECENTLY WENT BACK TO WORK AND ENDED UP GETTING LAID OFF AGAIN. NOW I AM AT HOME AGAIN BUT MY POINT IS WHEN I TOOK HER TO DAYCARE SHE DID SOOOO GOOD. IT WAS LIKE A WHOLE DIFFERENT CHILD WALKING IN THERE AND HER BEHAVIOR WAS EXCELLENT DURING DAYCARE, SHE LOVED PLAYING WITH THE OTHER KIDS. SHE WANTED TO BE GOOD LIKE THEY WERE AND SHE REALLY RESISTED KIDS THAT WERE MEAN OR BAD. BUT LET ME TELL YOU I RECOGNIZED HER WHEN IT WAS TIME TO PICK HER UP. SHE SCREAMED AND FOUGHT THE WHOLE WAY OUT. NOW THAT I AM HOME AGAIN I THINK SHE KIND OF RESENTS NOT GOING TO DAYCARE. I BET YOUR CHILD WILL DO JUST FINE IN SCHOOL. ALSO FROM EXPERIENCE I HAVE LEARNED PEOPLE THAT ACT CRAZY AND SAY THEIR KID NEVER DID SOMETHING OR ACT LIKE YOU ARE DOING SOMETHING WRONG ARE ONE OF THREE THINGS: FORGETFUL, LIEING OR JUST DON'T WANT TO ADMIT THEIR KIDS WERE JUST AS BIG OF BRATS!!! ALL KIDS ACT UP AT ONE TIME OR ANOTHER I GAVE MY PARENTS A RUN FOR THEIR MONEY UNTIL 5TH GRADE AND THEN I WAS AN HONOR STUDENT AND WENT TO COLLEGE! I ALSO FEEL YA WHEN YOU SAY YOU DON'T WANT TO DO FUN THINGS WITH HER BECAUSE OF HER BEHAVIOR. I FEEL LIKE HALF THE TIME I SIT IN THE HOUSE BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO FEEL THE COMPOUNDED STRESS FROM LEAVING IT! I AM WITH YOU I JUST WANT TO FEEL NORMAL AND ENJOY MOTHERHOOD AS MUCH AS I DID WHEN I FINALLY GOT TO COME HOME AND BE WITH HER! I ALSO FEEL GUILTY SOMETIMES BECAUSE OF THE WAY I THINK OR FEEL BECAUSE I ALMOST DIDN'T GET THE CHANCE TO RAISE HER BUT I THINK ALL OF THESE FEELING ARE NORMAL FOR BOTH OF US!

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