 | I am sorry you feel that way, but as a person that has raised not only my children, but my nieces and run a daycare out of my home, I will be honest and tell you that every single person on this earth is different. We don't develop the same way. My oldest daughter trained very easily, but my youngest child is 2 and has urinated in the toliet on many occasions and the second we put underwear on her she wets. She is just not ready, I will continue taking her to the potty and I will let her tell me when she is ready. I resent the fact that you believe parents are lazy if they are not potty trained by 2. I have always put my children first. I am not overindulging my children, I am allowing them to develop on their own schedule and time frame. I hate to think of all the mothers you have made feel like bad parents, by your bad advice and hateful accusations. The doctors are there to give advice, if they don't believe all children should be potty trained by 2 then maybe they are on to something. I guess if you believed all children should walk by the age of 1 then you would not have let your children crawl instead of walking, you would have made them learn to walk regardless of whether or not they were ready. Do you not see what you are trying to do? You are putting all of these children in a mold saying they are ready and if they are not it is because parents are lazy. I question your intentions and your reasoning. I also feel very sorry for any children you have that do not conform to your way of thinking. I hope in the future you try not to judge other parents based on what you see are failures when the children may just grow up to be happy well-adjusted adults and I am sure they will not be in diapers. |
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