 | Hello 13 year old! You have your whole life ahead of you! Don't rush into getting pregnant! I'm 31 and have been married for 2yrs. Please think about all the work that goes into having a child. And think about the childs future! Your only 13 and most people your age dont end up staying together forever with that boyfriend, i know you love him, but things change especially at your age..Finish school, get a good job and know that your life is going somewhere. We just bought a house last yr and are trying to have a baby, but there's so much more. Bills, house payments, car payments, groceries etc. Just think when a baby comes along, you have to buy them so much, diapers, food, clothes, it adds up so fast. Who is going to pay for all that if you have a child? Please swettie, wait. You are much too young! I'm so sorry but i just think you should wait till your much older! Live your life 1st before you bring another one into the world!!! Kimber |