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| | | NEXT MESSAGE  | | | | | AUTHOR: | lilmama03 | DATE: 08/28/03 1:28pm | | SUBJECT: |  Horrible past relationship, great new one, but with insecurities b/c of last one! please help! | | | My ex-boyfriend was horrible to me! He was jealous, controlling, and he did alot of mental damage to me. He hurt my self esteem tremendously, but finally, I left him. Now i'm with a great guy who treats me awesome and is not only a bf, but a friend as well. The only problem is, i feel like its too good to be true, and i'm just waiting for something to go wrong. I trust him for the most part, b/c he never ever gave me a reason not to, but i still have some insecurities b/c i trusted my last bf and look what he did to me! I know i just need to let the past be the past, but its so hard, and i'm so scared this guy will hurt me somehow eventually. I'm just not sure my heart could take it if he did b/c I'm so in love. What should i do? I tell my bf how i feel and he thinks i'm comparing him to my ex, which i would never do b/c he doesn't even compare! Sometimes, i wish i would've never let myself get so attached, out of fear that one day he'll do something to hurt my feelings the way my ex did. Please give me some advice!!!!! | |  | |
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