 | Hi
I am a single mom by choice, I walked out on the father of my son when I was 5 months pregnant. I was one of the lucky ones and had great support from my parents. I have fought every step of the way with my son's father, from paying maintenance to trying to get him involved in his son's life. I even moved countries (SA to UK) all alone with a very sick 8 month old. But it can be done and each day that you get through makes you stronger and you have to know that the first time your child calls you mommy - you will never be the same again. The first year is such a precious one, their smiles, the first time they crawl or walk and their first words (ok so they are gobbeldegook, but they are said with love).
My son is now 3 and a bit and is the most outgoing, loving child you could ever wish for. We tell each other everyday that we love each other and there is always time for hugs and kisses.
Just remember, mother nature gave us women the job of having children. Personally I think it was because she knew a man couldn't cope alone, but that a woman can.
Be strong, show your child all the love you have to give and remember that it might never be plain sailing, as each new age brings it's own problems, but it does get easier to cope with. |
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