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| ![]() ![]() Starting the College Journey: Overview by Robert Needlman, M.D., F.A.A.P. reviewed by Laura Jana, M.D., F.A.A.P. College means different things to different families. For some, the very fact that a child gets into college--any college--and comes away with a diploma is a major triumph. For other families, acceptance by anything less than the most prestigious university represents a disappointment, if not a failure. In modern U.S. society, the college diploma is an admission ticket to most of the jobs that pay a decent wage. Although much is made of getting into the "best" college, the actual education that a college student acquires depends at least as much on the individual as it does on the school and its professors. It is easy to find highly educated people who went to obscure schools, just as there are others who attended famous schools but managed to take away very little. Lowering the pressure To judge by their behavior (including the Mozart they listened to while pregnant!), you'd think that some parents believe the ultimate goal of child rearing is to see their child admitted to a prestigious college. But college should meet the needs of the student, not the parents' need for proof that they did an outstanding job of raising their child. While it's reasonable for parents to set long-term goals for their children, it's also necessary for children to be able to follow their own inclinations, to play, relax, explore, or just daydream. As college admissions approach, parents and children both tend to feel an increasing amount of pressure: children to raise their academic and extracurricular performance, and the parents to figure out what the family finances can afford. A little pressure can be a good thing, giving students the incentive they need to focus on schoolwork and prompting parents to take a good, hard look at their finances. But too much pressure can lead to feelings of desperation and the conviction that one is not good enough. I hope that the articles in this section can help to relieve some of this pressure and can point you in the right direction as you navigate the many areas of decision making that lie ahead. The topics covered include:
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