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| |    The Do's and Don'ts of Mother's Day by Laura Jana, M.D., F.A.A.P. reviewed by Robert Needlman, M.D., F.A.A.P. Mother's Day is fast approaching-time to rush to the jewelry store, chocolate shop, or florist, right? Well, maybe not. Now I'm not saying that some mothers wouldn't appreciate a box of chocolates or a new pair of earrings, but you can make the day especially meaningful by following a few simple do's and don'ts, whether you're honoring your own mother, the mother of your children, or even someone who's been like a mother to you. DO consider what would make celebrating Mother's Day most significant for the special mom in your life, whether it's a day spent with the kids or some time spent alone or with just her spouse. DON'T assume that she doesn't care about Mother's Day. Even if she says she doesn't want anything, find some way to let her know what a wonderful mom she is. DO ask her what she would most like to do or get if you aren't sure. While surprises are great, so is being treated to a day doing just what you most want to do. DON'T judge a mom who wants her Mother's Day gift to be a day spent alone. Being a mother is a 24/7 job, regardless of whether you stay at home or work full time. The luxury of a one-day reprieve is sometimes just what a woman needs to return to her everyday role refreshed. DO include children in the preparation. Nothing means more to a mother than the thought and effort put into whatever her spouse and children do for her. DON'T teach your child that Mother's Day is all about buying gifts and spending money. Focus on why you are celebrating the day more than what you're giving. DO use this day to strengthen your children's appreciation of family. Talk to them about the happy childhood memories you have of your own mother, how much they mean to their mom (and dad), and about how special it was the day they were born or became a part of your family. DON'T forget to honor your children's grandmothers. Children learn by example, so no matter how wonderful or strained your relationship may be with your own mother or mother-in-law, find some way to recognize the good things she's done as a mom and grandmother.
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